Opinion
Pets require real commitment
Pets and selfish people should not be paired up.
I witnessed this abomination when I was in Toronto recently. With the snow flying, an extreme wind chill and a freezing –10 C temperature, a friend and I decided to step into Starbucks to grab a coffee and defrost our faces.
Unfortunately, a dog chained up outside didn’t have the same option. While the owner sipped his latte, the poor pooch pawed at the window in hopes of getting out of the cold.
My friend and I noticed this dog, and I reflected on how I think I’m too selfish to own an animal because I would much rather have the freedom to come and go as I please, rather than having to stay home with a new pet.
A pet comes with responsibilities, including spending a significant portion of your time with your animal, whether it’s at home or elsewhere.
I’m not willing to make the sacrifices, so this is what would probably happen if I owned a pet: “Hey pooch, you sit outside in the freezing cold while I go get my latte and chat with my friends. Oh, and I’m going to be at school during the day, and I’m going out at night, so are you cool with just hanging out by yourself? Don’t worry, alone time is delightful.”
The cruelty in this statement is obvious.
I know there are exceptions to every rule, but in general students should not own pets for multiple reasons.
First of all, pets are expensive. Veterinarian bills, grooming and food don’t come cheap. Pet owners are responsible for making sure their animal is fed and healthy, and if cat food isn’t in the budget, maybe you should wait till it is.
Secondly, living space is often a factor for students because of their transitory living situations. Space and lifestyle are two areas where students may find themselves compromised when considering owning a pet. What are you going to do with your pup when you’re at school or at the bar?
Similarly, there’s also the training factor. Shockingly enough, a brand new puppy generally doesn’t come house trained. I have friends who live in a divided house and for the first three months they had to take their puppy everywhere they went because the dog would bark and soil the house. This meant they couldn’t go to the movies or out to dinner without arranging for a puppy sitter. Sacrifices had to be made, so they spent most of their time at home.
I’ve also noticed many students deciding it’s a great idea to get a shared pet with the rest of their housemates. However, people need to consider who’s going to take the pet on holidays and what’s going to happen once school is over.
Having a pet isn’t a temporary thing — it’s a long-term commitment. Students need to carefully consider whether they’re responsible and stable enough to own a pet.
Ask yourself: are you able to commit the next 10 to 14 years of your life? Maybe you are, but I would argue the majority play the ignorance card and avoid considering these factors when staring into the adorable eyes of a fluffy kitten.
Having a pet as a companion can be a wonderful experience, but if you’re anything like me and can’t spend much time at home, it’s better to wait until after you graduate.
This brings us back to the Starbucks situation. What’s so bad about taking the time to chat with friends over a coffee? Nothing at all. But when you have a pet, sacrifices have to be made, and coffee dates during the bitter cold wintertime might have to be cancelled. It’s up to you to decide if it’s worth it.
3 Comments
I agree with everything you just said about the responsibilities except I think it is manageable to have a pet at school.
I have a dog named is Crosby who is 1 year old. I am a full time student, involved in extracurriculars and I enjoy going out with my friends. Having a dog as a student is no different than having a dog post university. When I graduate university I expect to be just as busy if not more.
What does this mean for Crosby? I have to plan to wake up early morning to take him outside, come home after classes to chill with him, and if I’m not able to take care of him for a certain amount of hours I get a friend to baby sit him (there are tons of people who love baby sitting).
It is extra responsibility but at the same time it is completely worth it.
I agree with most of what you say, I do think it’s possible to have a pet as a student with the appropriate support and commitment, however as a student these things are often lacking!
Most importantly, I really hope you pointed how inappropriate and cruel the owner was being, leaving their dog outside in such cold temperatures, and didn’t just watch, sipping your own latte disapprovingly!






I’d just like to add that if students are interested in having a pet, and have the time but not the finances, or don’t want the 10-15 year commitment, fostering is an excellent option. There are so many dogs and cats that have been rescued and are waiting for a forever home that would benefit from someone to give them some love and attention while they wait. Most shelters will provide all food and vet expenses, only asking that you take care of the animal.
Always think about the commitment you are making, whether it is fostering or owning a pet. You’ll be a bringing a living being into your life who will completely count on you. Make sure you know for a fact that you will be able to do whatever it necessary to give it a wonderful life.